Vicar's Letters - 2025
March Vicar's Letter
Vicar's Letter - March
Dear friends,
March this year sees the start of Lent with Ash Wednesday being the 5th, and so our Lenten journey begins, a time of prayer, reflection, study and for some fasting. What does Lent mean to you?
When I was younger, a question often asked was, ‘What are you giving up for Lent’? I have given up many things over the years, chocolate, biscuits, cake, crisps, supper! My late wife gave up playing ‘Spider Solitaire’ on the computer one year and she found that the hardest thing ever to give up! I recall she made up for it though, with several hours of playing on Easter Day evening, whilst I was left to bath and settle the children to sleep!
Lent is a period of forty days, well, forty six, including the Sundays, although traditionally Sundays don’t ‘count’. Forty days is a significant period of time in both the Old and New Testament. In Genesis, the flood that destroyed the earth was brought on by forty days and nights of rain. In Hebrews, the Israelites spent forty years in the wilderness before reaching the promised land. In Exodus, Moses fasted for forty days before receiving the Ten Commandments at Mount Sinai. The Synoptic Gospels tell us Jesus spent forty days in the wilderness fasting in preparation for his ministry. Jesus remained on earth forty days after the resurrection.
Giving something up for Lent can be a way of symbolically uniting yourself to the mystery of Jesus’ own temptation in the desert. It is also a time to ponder your own priorities in your life, and to realign your will with God’s, set things right.
However, taking something up for Lent can be good too! Set aside some time each day to spend in prayer, or even just in silence. The Church of England this year has produced a book of forty daily reflections, ‘Living Hope: A Lent Journey’.
You could declutter your home. Donate forty things you haven’t used or you don’t need, to a charity shop. You could put a ‘pound in a pot’ each day as a thanksgiving gift and then donate it to charity. Do something nice for someone each day. There are many things you could do. Whatever we do, let’s prepare our minds and our hearts for Easter and make secure, fix firmly, the place of Jesus in our lives, and be further shaped in His image, as we walk together the Lenten journey.
God Bless,
Keith
February Vicar's Letter
Vicar's Letter - February
Dear friends,
As I sat at my desk to write, the Beatle’s song ‘All You Need Is Love’, just came into my mind! So, I found it on YouTube and listened to it!
They sing about there being nothing you can do that can't be done…All you need is love, love, love is all you need.
There is a truth there. We all need love. We need to feel loved, and we need to be able to love others too.
February is often thought of as the ‘Month of Love’, with St Valentine’s Day right in the middle, on the 14th.
At Christmas we sang, ‘Love came down at Christmas, love all lovely, love divine’.
Love did indeed come down at Christmas: the Love of God, our Father God, sending his Son Jesus to live and die for us and the love of Jesus Christ for each and every one of us, in his arms opened wide on the cross, to pay the price for our wrongs.
The Holy Bible has a lot to say about love and St Paul, in his letter to the Church at Corinth, tells us that even if a person can do the greatest of things, if they do not have love, then they have nothing. He continues to say that love is patient, kind, doesn’t boast, is not envious, keeps no record of wrongs, rejoices with the truth. Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes and always perseveres. …. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
The Apostle John writes, ‘Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. God showed his love among us by sending His one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love. Since God so loved us, we ought to love one another.’
There is no end to the love of our Father God and His Son Jesus Christ. There is no end to the love that they have for us. With love, everything is possible. Love is all you need.
God Bless,
Keith
January Vicar's Letter
Vicar's Letter - January
Dear friends,
Advent Sunday this year is on Sunday 1st December, which is also our All-Age Eucharist and Toy and Gift Service. We shall also be dedicating a new Advent Wreath, a thanksgiving gift from Yvonne. It’s going to be a busy service…. It’s going to be a busy time and that’s wonderful, but we also need to make sure that we take the ‘time out’ to pause and reflect, in expectant hope ,and prepare ourselves and our homes for Christ’s birth.
It can be easy to lose sight of the real meaning of Christmas with all the hustle and bustle, seeking and searching for perfect presents, this year’s absolute must-haves. It’s not needed. We need to remember that Christmas starts with Christ.
‘Come and worship Christ the new-born King, Come and worship Christ the new-born King’, is the refrain from the carol ‘Angels from the Realms of Glory’….
It’s the one where you need to take a deep breath before you start to sing, but it is a good one!
There are many opportunities at St Stephen’s to ‘come and worship’, to take time out and to reflect; over Advent, Christmas and into the New Year, as detailed in this Focus magazine. You are most welcome at all our services.
Let’s remember what we are celebrating…. Christmas starts with Christ!
Peace and Joy!
With every blessing for the New Year!
Keith